How To Become The Guy Every Girl Wants

13.03.2023

Ask a woman who her ideal man is, and she will easily describe her ideal man to you, starting with the color of her eyes and ending with how many letters are in his name. Of course, all preferences are individual, but as practice shows, there are a number of qualities that women value the most.

Fair sex appreciates intelligence and honesty most of all. Moreover, for a man as a whole, as a representative of the male sex, girls highlight such qualities as generosity and a sense of humor as important, and for a legal spouse, loyalty and the ability to earn money.

Let's try to make a list of the main qualities of a man that women are so eager to see in their dream chosen one.

How to be a man that every woman wants

• Care and attention. A girl will always appreciate if you treat her with sensitivity and care; these are the qualities a woman wants in a man. Sincere care is manifested in daily actions. If she left your home, be sure to find out how she got there, casually ask if she got enough sleep, what kind of manicure she did when she was in the salon, etc. There can be endless variations of questions. Just unobtrusively show that kind of attention to the daily minutiae.

• Women tend to think that if a man beautifully and actively courts at the beginning of a relationship, then it will always be so. In fact, this happens most during the first year of a relationship, when both partners try to show their best side. Experienced women evaluate a man in the process of communication. Usually, a few hours are enough for them to understand who is in front of them.

• Intelligence. A high level of intelligence is valued by women as a quality that will help them build a successful marriage, the kind of man every woman wants. A “prosperous” marriage means material wealth, and it, in turn, will help to raise offspring successfully. Having a mind in a man also gives a sense of security. How does it work? If a man is smart, then even in the wild jungle, he will be able to figure out how to build a house, where to get food, and how to survive the storm. Without delving into such theories, it’s even nice when a man’s horizons are not limited to knowing how to change a light bulb in the hallway.

• Courage. What a woman wants from a man in a relationship? In her dreams, he always takes the first step, and is not afraid to stand up for her in difficult times, even if she is wrong. “Behind him, like behind a stone wall,” is what every woman wants to say about her chosen one.

• A responsibility. Things woman wants in man this is a responsible man who proves his responsibility by his actions. If he said, he did. Decided that it's time for you to live together? He takes responsibility for the woman and the future together. You can draw a conclusion about the responsibility of a person from everyday life. Such a man sets goals, makes plans, and, importantly, goes on the path to their implementation. It's one thing to infantilely wave your arms and talk about what you will have tomorrow and another thing to really put it into practice.

• Loyalty. If you want to know what type of guys do girls like, then definitely true. Be honest with your other halves. Become those rare exceptions whose photos of many years will be published on social networks as a standard of relationships and love.

• Appearance. How to become a man women want? Put in front of a woman, two men in dirty clothes, a foul-smelling and stately well-groomed handsome man. Of course, she will go to the second. It would also work if a man had to make a choice between such girls. As much as we would not like it, we make the first impression with our appearance. Straight posture, pleasant perfume, and clean clothes are an indicator of a self-confident man.

• Financial stability. What do girls look for in a guy? Yes, money plays a role. A woman wants to be sure of the future. A man who knows how to earn money looks stronger than his male rivals. A woman can earn well herself, or she can not earn at all, but the one who knows how to get money will always be in priority. Survival of the fittest, as they say. Many men can vehemently protest these words. You are very lucky if you have a woman with you who has gone with you from three kopecks in your bosom to financial stability. Appreciate such women nearby. Unfortunately, as practice shows, a man, having achieved a certain position, abruptly forgets who was with him on this path.

• Dreams. Women too often sacrifice their dreams for the sake of family and relationships or simply because, in our society, a woman's dreams are not given worthy value, especially if they are not related to the career of a wife or mother. But the dreams of any person are important. Studies show that the duration and success of a relationship depend on how much each is able to respect the goals of the other. If you do not respect her dreams and are not ready to do everything in your power to help realize them, then suddenly, you will find yourself next to a defeated, downcast, depressed woman. 

5 things every woman wants in a man

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• Emotional connection. Reliability is built through emotional connection and that is what creates the favorite features on a guy. A woman needs a man who will be by her side when she needs him, who is ready to take an interest in her and take care of her. Women want to be respected, listened to, and connected with them. Give the woman your undivided attention. This means this: if she wants to talk to you, take your mind off the computer toy, put your mobile phone aside and demonstrate by your actions how important she is to you and what she tells you. Your task is understanding, and understanding can be achieved by asking questions. If your date complains about her best friend, don't offer her a ready-made solution, and don't laugh it off or take the problem as insignificant. Ask questions about how she feels and what it all means to her. You need to show true interest and try to understand why this is so important to her. How to be the guy every girl wants? Men believe there is no point in discussing negative emotions because it is much better to find a solution to the problem and forget about it. But for women, emotions are an opportunity to make close contact. Try to remember this the next time your date wants to share her feelings.

• The highest skills. Maybe you don't know how to fight with nunchucks, shoot a hunting bow, or hack websites like a badass hacker. But no matter what you are good at, women will be captivated by skill if you can demonstrate it in something that interests you - an ideal type of guy. In other words, collecting stamps makes you the most famous and status collector. If you are a garbage collector, become the most famous, knowledgeable, and powerful garbage collector. Women are attracted to men who can become president and head of themselves. Confidence attracts a woman. Confidence comes from a firm knowledge of one's abilities.

• Language of the body. What every girl wants in a guy? The men women paid attention to were the "spatial maximizers." They demonstrated their dominance in the social environment by stretching their legs, throwing their arm over the back of a chair, or otherwise claiming ownership of the space they occupied. In addition, successful men were "significantly better at the art of the gaze." This means that they looked women in the eyes, often accompanied by smiles. Even more successful men performed fewer "closed body movements" - imagine wrapping your arms around yourself like a schoolboy being scolded. If you are in a group of people, you will not be perceived as the dominant person. Therefore, never stand with your arms clasped around yourself, and do not cross your legs at the knees.

• Compliments. What every girl wants to hear from a guy? The only decent answer when a woman asks you: “Does this dress make me fat?” falls to the floor and pretends to have a heart attack. All men hear such questions, but you can’t pretend to be sick year after year. The real answer to this question is: “You are beautiful, no matter what you wear.” The only way. There is no other answer. As a man, you might think it's funny to joke about the donut she ate or the size of her thighs. So, nothing funny. And for every statement that detracts from her dignity, you will have to pay hundreds of compliments. Nothing hurts a woman more than criticism of her appearance. The dream man of any woman never allows himself this.

• Quarreling. Studies have shown that women's anger usually stems from one of the three main causes of helplessness, injustice, and irresponsibility of other people. When you don't listen to your woman, she gets angry because she feels helpless. When you don't treat her as an equal or betray her trust, she feels unfair and gets angry. She gets mad at you when you don't show up on time (others' irresponsibility). Here is essential girls advice for guys. If the conflict erupted, the woman wanted only one thing to be listened to. Her task is to make her partner understand her better. How do men react to criticism? They take it as a personal attack. Their innate defense system turns on, their heart rate accelerates, and they are ready to repel an attack with the same vigor as their ancestors attacked a buffalo or a neighboring tribe. Heroes, in such cases, apply three simple strategies that have been scientifically proven to be able to reduce the pulse. First, take a few deep breaths. Second, count to ten. If you still see that you have not lost the desire to verbally attack your woman, then there is a third strategy - take a time out. You need to say something like, “You know what, I don’t have the strength to listen to you right now. I'll be back in half an hour, and we'll continue."

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