Get a Girl to Go Home With You

21.06.2023

How to get a girl to come home with you? If you started dating a girl and made it to the third date with her, congratulations. The third date usually ends with sex; otherwise it cannot but rejoice. You are probably in joyful anticipation, but when it comes directly to the invitation, many men fall into a stupor.

How to take girls home?

By using a few key strategies, you can avoid the embarrassing moments of being invited to sex. And once you understand the basic algorithm of actions, you can easily put it into practice. Here are some important tips on how to take a girl home:

• Ask her the right questions. Dedicate the first date to establishing trust and understanding. The second date is to create sexual tension and attraction. And use the third date to find out if the two of you have the potential for a long-term relationship. This can be done by asking her questions based on things like morals, values, and intelligence. If you are sure that you want to continue your communication with this girl, then here are a few questions that you need to pay special attention to, because they improve your mood by increasing sexual tension:

1. "What is your favorite sin?" It can enhance the sexual spark. Accompany this with banter, touching non-threatening parts of her body, such as her elbow or shoulder.

2. "What are you most afraid of?" Thanks to such stories, the girl will become more vulnerable, and a certain degree of trust will arise between you.

3. "Which celebrity is at the top of your list of ideal lovers?" This question is both funny and educational. You gently introduce the topic of sex into your conversation and safely heighten the sexual tension between the two of you.

By asking the right questions to enhance intimacy, both of you will look forward to having sex at the end of the date. And this greatly simplifies communication. You will not be shy to invite her to visit, and she will not be afraid to agree.

• Plan a date near your house or apartment. How to bring a girl home from a bar? Instead of wasting time on a date and thinking about how to invite her to your place, strategize in advance by choosing a place for dinner near the house. Naturally, you don't want too long taxi rides or traffic jams to ruin your mood. Plan a romantic dinner near your home to avoid the hustle and bustle of a long drive. This is tiring, knocks down sexual arousal, and the girl may change her mind by the time you get there. If you are confident enough in your abilities, you can cook dinner for her yourself. Make sure that the food matches her preferences, or better yet, find out her favorite dish in advance. Also, make sure you know about her food allergies. You don't want a romantic evening to end in the emergency room, do you?

• Make it easy for her to get to you. How to get women to come to you? When was the last time you met the woman you asked out on a date in your car? If it was recently, then everything is fine. But even if not, don't worry. In the era of Uber, the number of guys driving their own cars on Friday and Saturday nights has dropped significantly. These types of services save you the hassle of finding parking spaces and the stress of driving on busy roads. In addition, if you pick up a girl in a taxi on the first and even on the second date, she will feel more secure. That's why it's best for men to ensure that the first date is in a public, convenient place during the daytime and close to your girlfriend's house so she can feel as safe and comfortable as possible. But by the third date, you should be comfortable enough with each other to sit in a car together without worry. Therefore, you can offer to pick her up in a taxi and take her back at the end of the date (even if it comes the next morning). When you offer to pick her up and take her to a nice restaurant or a homemade dinner you have planned, it will seem both thoughtful and noble. 

• Come up with a good reason why she should accept your invitation. How to get a girl to come to you? If you are wondering how to invite her to your home, then first of all, you need to find out one very important point, namely, what can interest her so much that she will drop all caution and go to visit you. Each date should have its own meaning; in the same way, an invitation to visit should carry some kind of semantic load and not just a desire to have sex. But before we get into the compelling reasons why she should come to your house, let's look at some of the nuances that you need to avoid at all costs if you plan to invite her to your place. Here are some terrible phrases that could land you in the friend zone or risk never seeing it again:

1. You have food that is “leaked” or expired at home, and you offer to finish it. Don't tell her you have a "bottle of wine that's about to go bad, and you need company to finish it off." After such an invitation, the girl will never again agree to go on a date with you.

2. Cinema and ice cream. Such an invitation looks unappetizing. She will think you just want to spend the evening and sleep with someone.

3. "Let's go to my place and have sex." No. Simply no.

It’s clear that when the chemistry boils over, and you both go to your house, then, most likely, she also wants to have sex as much as you do. But that doesn't mean you have to spit on romance and anticipation to invite a girl over to your house. 

How to get a girl home from the bar?

How to take a woman home? Now that we've got that out of the way let's see how to invite her to your house with good reasons.

• You have fresh cookies that you baked with your own hands. Bake cookies ahead of time and offer her coffee and dessert in a more private place.

• She needs to get to know your puppy. How to get her to come over? A great way to invite her to your home is to talk about a puppy (kitten, decorative rabbit). Such topics always resonate with girls and do not leave them indifferent. This one will most likely work, but only on the condition that you have a real puppy and it's time for you to feed it.

• Rare drink. Tell her that you have a very rare wine, rum, or any other alcoholic drink (depending on her preferences) at home that she should try. Just buy this drink in advance to avoid getting into a stupid position. You can also ask her if she's tried some "rare cocktail" (think of a cool name) and offer to cook for her at your place.

End of date

So, she agreed to go to your house and spend the night together. Do you lash out at her as soon as she crosses the threshold of your apartment? No! Do you want her to lose trust in you? You offered her a great excuse to come to visit you, so keep your word. Whatever it is, here's a good place to start.

Turn on some music channel and offer her a drink. Sit next to her and let her be part of your world for a few minutes. If you come to her house, then show a healthy enthusiasm for everything that she shows you. There is no need to rush here; a man who knows how to control himself is very attractive. Slowly, step by step, bring her to sex. Sit next to her on the couch with your hips touching. Put your hand on her thigh and gently caress her. Kiss her bare shoulder and neck. Unobtrusively excite her, gradually increasing the momentum. Do everything naturally and slowly. Respect her boundaries, and if she isn't ready to have sex with you yet, don't worry. Your restraint will create even more trust and understanding between you. Your goal is to get close to her and, at the same time, make the girl feel as comfortable as possible. Once you do that, everything else will fall into place. Keep creating sexual tension between you, and see how it ends.

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