How to Reject a Girl
Why would a guy reject a girl he likes? Corresponded, met, the real diverged from the desired. The luxurious blonde turned out to be a gray mouse with zero breast size. True, only you "disappeared." She fell head over heels in love. Oh yes. There was still sex, and she, tugging at the sleeve of her blouse and downcast eyes, froze in anticipation of the offer. Let's talk about how to send a girl off beautifully in an awkward situation.
How to reject a girl nicely?
He denied the girl love or sex at the very least, insulted her vanity. Historically, the right to agree or reject is with a woman. And when she becomes an active party, she has to transcend not only through traditions. Reputation and honor are at stake.
The refusal she receives, an unbridled predator, turns her into a naive girl whose virginity has just been violated. In light of this, the task of refusing the girl and don't dismiss her feelings is almost impossible. But if you have definitely decided for yourself that you don’t like it, you don’t need it, and you don’t want it, then you don’t have to, and you don’t have to.
Decided to refuse. Rejecting a woman is normal. Remember the international ethical principle - "treat people the way you want to be treated." No need to say to the girl rudeness. Turning on a bastard in the hope that the young lady will self-destruct is a bad idea.
How to turn a girl down?
Turn on the fool. If anyone is included, then a fool. Sometimes being straightforward with a girl doesn't help. All her body movements carry nonsense. She invites her to tell her; you need to help your mother put things in order in the closet; after all, she is an elderly woman, but once she could stop a galloping horse, not like now, completely helpless. Invites you for a walk - say that walking is cool, that you like walking with friends in the park and you regret that you spend little time with them. We should meet more often, and it is better not to part. At some fifth sentence, the girl will come off. Maybe he will twist his finger at his temple.
Lies to the rescue. Say a loan or even two. Alimony for three children. In love with another. Or in another. Therefore, you drink soundly. It is better to be branded as eccentric than to offend or give vain hope. To lie is one of the best ways to man rejects a woman without offending her.
Intimate talk. “I don’t like; I don’t want, I won’t. Thank you, orrevoir! Possible side effects are tears and snot. Potential complications of blackmail and threats. So the girls say, "Don't torture us; tell the truth." Her end of the world will end in three days. There can be many reasons why would a guy reject a pretty girl, but it is not necessary to name them all to the girl herself. Suffice it to say that it does not suit you or that the spark did not run through.
Last resort ignore. If he doesn’t understand hints, he’s not afraid of a mortgage; in response to your “I don’t love, I don’t want,” he puts forward a reinforced concrete “will endure, fall in love” - ready to attack and besiege against all odds - turn on ignore. Disappear and dissolve. Don't answer or pick up the phone. Excitement will pass, and the active girl will switch to the next one. Ignoring, in principle, is a humane and effective initiative. Turning on ignore gives the girl the opportunity to cool down, think, think out and formulate everything conveniently for herself.
How not to refuse a girl?
How to say no to a girl and stay on always bad. There are many such ways. Take, for example, such a technique to send a girl away by correspondence. There is no way to reject a girl nicely over text nicely and ethically. Firstly, she will read between the lines and will not understand what you wrote. Secondly, there will be a bad aftertaste. And material evidence of this is a snotty letter.
Stop flirting. Leave all these long glances, ambiguous conversations, and casual touches for your beloved and not for a girl who is unrequitedly in love. Direct maximum efforts to create a stable sense of confidence - there can be no relationship. The frailest sprout of hope she diligently nurtures. To send a girl off, phrases with the right words can be picked up with the merest IQ.
I am problematic. Sometimes guys try to send a girl off by scaring her. “I don’t deserve you,” “You can’t even imagine what a terrible person I am,” “I have a lot of problems now - a loan, alimony.” Believe me; there are no such shortcomings that a woman in love could not accept. There are no difficulties that a woman in love would not be ready to endure. Evaluate girls in love adequately - ready for anything, through fire and water.
Let's be friends. "Let's be friends" is also not an option. Do not hesitate even become your best friend. Surround you with care and tenderness. Will lend a helping hand in a difficult and not only minute. Will regularly offer friendly sex, friendly shopping, and an equally friendly weekend with parents. In general, your offer to be friends will be accepted and used against you.
Through the bed. It's nice, of course, when sex is at hand. And it is a pity to miss such an opportunity, but it is necessary. Resist this insidious thought that once you can. You can't sleep with the people you're going to kick. This is sex with no strings attached. It will be filled with obligations for ten years to come. Even in our emancipated time, sex for a woman is more than for health. And exceptions are rare.
When a man turns down a woman in any situation
You can gently send a girl off not only in matters of relationships and sex. You have every right to refuse a girl to buy a fur coat or not to bring the fifth mug of coffee. But it is worth understanding the following. A woman is forced by dense instincts to ask to make coffee, fix the car, and buy tampons. You are an active male who has to carry food and demonstrate abilities in every other way. She is a waiting and receiving female, testing you for strength.
That is why she turns to you with requests of different sanity. And just try to say no. At best, you will have to listen to the story that you do not love her. The option of leaving for another, more enterprising male is not ruled out. And why say “no” when you can send a girl off competently in any situation?
Don't take hints. Often young ladies state requests in the form of thick hints, which a man can quite successfully ignore.
Give pity. Never forget that girls are compassionate and compassionate creatures. Just say that you are ready to fulfill her request, but you really, really do not want to do this.
To say and not to do. Sometimes you can turn on the "sclerosis" option - promise and not do it. “Of course, I’ll fix it,” “Of course, I’ll buy it.” After all, we are sometimes forgetful and distracted. The main thing is not to abuse it.
Suggest an alternative. A sentence that begins with "Maybe it's better..." can replace the word "no" in almost any situation. “Ran out of apples. Go buy it." “Darling, maybe I can make your coffee and download a new episode of your favorite series”? Think about the content of the counteroffer so that the alternative does not turn out to be another problem.
Find an argument against it. To send off a girl who rolls up and leaves behind a pleasant impression is from the category of fantasy. But at least you try. Cleaner karma - easier to live.
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