How to React When a Boy Asks You Out

10.07.2023

What to do if someone asks you out? If you are not married but you are planning, then you will have dates. You need to be prepared and know some rules. The first thing you should remember when a man asks you out on a date is that he likes you. Don't forget this; it will give you the confidence you need. The second rule is that you must be a woman and give him the right to be a man.

When a guy asks you out

• Away with excitement. For starters, try not to panic and pull yourself together. Start preparing for a date in one and a half or even two hours: shower without haste, prepare the necessary clothes and accessories, and pack your handbag. During the training, turn on your favorite music - it will calm and cheer you up. Most importantly, do not forget - if a guy invites you on a date, he is already interested in you.

• Readiness 100%. Just in case, consider options for where you can go if this guy asks me out. Perhaps the guy will suggest that you visit places that you love to get to know your tastes better. And take note: although it is still quite common to believe that the guy pays for everything on a date, still take a certain amount of money with you so that you can at least be able to pay for yourself.

• Remember to smile. Be natural, smile, joke, and ask questions. Take the initiative if you see that the guy is having a hard time starting a conversation. At the same time, you should not load it with all the information about yourself at once: your tastes, favorite films, flowers, and best friends. Try to find common ground and communicate on topics that unite you - common interests, hobbies, preferences, or acquaintances.

What do you do when a guy asks you out?

• Cloth. Wear what makes you feel confident and comfortable. Also, be sure to dress appropriately for the weather so you don't get too hot or cold.

• Shoes. Be sure to be comfortable, especially if it will likely be a long walk. You should not wear new shoes for a date - they can rub your feet.

• Makeup. No need to put up too brightly - light daytime make-up is enough to emphasize your dignity. And remember the "golden rule" of good makeup - you need to emphasize either the eyes or the lips.

• Everything you need with you. Take a small bag or backpack with you, where you put everything you need: a cosmetic bag, money, keys, an umbrella (if it's autumn), a band-aid, wet wipes, etc. If he asked me out on a date, then it's better to be prepared for anything.

Make sure that your image is not defiant and remember - first of all, you should like yourself. Spin around in the mirror, smile - you are beautiful.

How to respond when a guy asks you out over text?

• Live here and now. Forget gadgets for a while. If you are constantly distracted by the phone, he will think that you are bored with him. Put yourself in his place - and you will understand how it looks from the outside. Decide in advance all the necessary questions and let all your attention be focused only on your communication.

• Comparisons aside! Try not to compare it to others, even in thought. If you had a relationship with someone before meeting this guy, you don’t need to analyze and compare them. Before, you is an entirely different person, with a different worldview, experience, and character, and together you will write the history of your relationship.

What to say when a guy asks you out?

The first date is a very important moment in a relationship. But do not panic and be nervous if something suddenly goes wrong. Enjoy the time you spend together. Be yourself. And then everything will work out for you!

• Don't spend more than an hour on a date. “How not more than an hour? He'll be offended!" you will exclaim. And I'll ask the question: What are you doing here? You must be a busy girl who has something else in her life besides a guy - her own affairs, interesting events, meetings, and hobbies, and you have no time to spend evenings on dates from which, perhaps, nothing will come of it. Come on a date, interest the guy, and fly away in an hour maximum - so you will interest him even more. Most importantly, let me understand. He interested you that you would be glad to stay, but alas, the trumpet is calling. He will think, “Damn, she is so interesting, so much has not been said to each other yet, we have not discussed so much yet, I want to see her again”, and consider that the second date is in your pocket.

• Be in a good mood. Should I confirm a date with a guy? All you have to do on a first date is be in a good mood, give the guy a chance to impress you, and keep the conversation going. All. To interest him and try so that the date does not fail, you should not. And even more so, you should not make it your goal to please him - you can please a sissy, stupid, irresponsible, rude, bully, and in general, someone who will make you unhappy. Your primary task is to take off your rose-colored glasses and understand what kind of person is in front of you and how much he likes you.

What not to do on a first date?

What to say when someone asks you out? It's best to be sincere, but if you did accept the invitation, then you also need to know what not to do.

• You can't dress provocatively. It’s not for nothing that we always recommend not to overdo it with an outfit on a first date – you should look beautiful, but don’t put on your best, and even more so, don’t try to “show everything that is hidden,” otherwise the guy will take your message wrong and will treat accordingly. Alas, the stereotypes in the minds of guys are more alive than the living.

• Do not drink alcohol, wine, or beer. I hope you don't drink, but I'll tell you just in case. Wine is terribly romantic, but not on a first date because your glass of wine is permission for him to drink too. He will immediately understand that you can drink with him, and one day, in the company of mutual friends, they will all walk around with bottles of light and not see anything wrong with that. You probably don't want that, do you?

• Do not complain. Nothing at all! Neither for dad, nor for mom, nor study or part-time work - fight against complaints! As it does not happen in fairy tales - the guy will not take and make a happy princess out of an unfortunate Cinderella; he will rather take a princess and make a queen out of her. Guys want to be around interesting and happy girls and not with those who oppress them with their whining.

• Don't manifest anything. Don't claim that you only kiss on the fifth date, that you only go out with people your mom approves and grandma reapproves, and stuff like that. The guy will just run away - you'll look weird.

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