Show the girl that you love her and are serious about her
15.02.2023
How to prove to your girlfriend you love her more? To deal with the effect, you need to know the cause. Why can a girl repeat a mantra about dislike:
- Negative relationship experience.
- Very high suspicion. She always believes that she is condemned, not loved, not appreciated, and belittled in all spheres of relations: at work, in the family with her parents, at school, and with a man.
- Wants more of your attention and thus tries to provoke you to it.
- Perhaps she collects men, squeezing everything out of them and forcing them to prove their love constantly. Such young ladies are insatiable and overly self-confident; you can easily figure them out yourself.
How to show your girlfriend you love her?
Analyzing these reasons, one can understand that the reproaches of girls are just a cry of a person in need of attention. Women's pride does not allow girls to say that your attention is not enough. But they are taught to act around. Yes, not the most pleasant method, but now you know what is hidden behind her "you stopped loving me."
How to show a woman you love her more than anything?
In Gary Chapman's acclaimed bestseller The Five Love Languages, the author talks about 5 ways people can express their love for another person. Each of us has some of the "languages" more pronounced and some less.
That is, if we speak better in some “language of love,” then it is necessary to speak with us in it. Conversely, if one of the types is weakly expressed, then the approach in the language of this variant will be ineffective. Knowing what type your partner is can create harmony in a relationship.
In short, these 5 methods are:
- Compliments, words of approval.
- Gifts, flowers.
- The time you can spend with the person.
- Help.
- Touch, massage, hugs.
How to tell a girl you appreciate her? Your task is to find out which of these ways is most suitable for your girlfriend and show her your love in an accessible and understandable way for her.
How to show a girl you love her with actions?
This will not necessarily be one option; as a rule, most people have them all at once, located in different places of importance.
There are girls who definitely need to hug and kiss you when they meet, touch you during the day, and feel your strength and warmth. And there are those who are indifferent to this, but they hide from any compliment; having received it in the morning, they twist it in their heads until the very evening and smile, thinking only of you.
Men and women understand love differently
Men usually "speak" the following love languages:
- touch, tactile contact, sex;
- recognition, encouragement, and confirmation of its importance and significance;
- sit together in the evening, embracing, and watching a movie together.
How to tell my girlfriend I love her more than anything? The following options are more suitable for girls:
- verbal confirmation of her beauty, attractiveness, and significance for you as a woman;
- help from you: in everyday life, in various situations where she is powerless, a feeling of a strong shoulder nearby and protection;
- signs of attention, flowers, small presents, and serious gifts.
How to show a girl you're serious about her?
Ask her directly what she likes best when you do it for her. If you find out what it is and demonstrate your love in a language that she understands, then very soon, all her doubts will disappear, and she will not nag you because you do not love her.
Ways to show your girlfriend you care?
Thank her for what she does for you. By this, you will show that you appreciate her efforts and you are pleased with such care of you. You are not an insensitive, indifferent cracker, but a sensitive and attentive man. But keep your brutality, do not scatter in gratitude, but speak clearly and to the point “Thank you for dinner, dear, it was delicious,” “Thank you for ironing the shirts, my hostess.”
Compliments. What a beautiful, smart, gentle, affectionate woman she is. There is an opinion that your words of admiration for her are 50% of the success in creating a happy and lasting relationship. The remaining 50% is the sum of all actions, habits, daily activities, surprises, gifts, and so on.
Words of love. Don't assume that a girl can see or feel your love by default. Can not! Does not see! That's what they need to hear. This is another sense organ. The fact that you gave perfume and took her to a restaurant did not reach her ears and understanding. Seriously, then say such words; they are necessary for girls like air. Without beautiful actions and phrases, hug and quietly "I love you." We assure you, it is the greatest bliss to hear such words from a man. All other indirect confirmations of love by some suspicious persons can be interpreted in a completely opposite sense.
How to prove to your girlfriend that you love her?
- Make plans together. It can be both long-term and short-term (a trip, the next weekend, vacation, entertainment, going to a club, or cinema, visiting friends for birthdays). Such conversations show the seriousness and stability of the relationship. And a girl who doubts your love lacks confidence in this.
- Talk to her about what's going on in your life. This breeds trust and intimacy. So she will understand that she is significant and loved by you.
- Support, empathize, care for her, and encourage him in difficult periods of her life. Don't leave alone at times like this. At the same time, do not impose your help, it is better if you just ask what you can do for her now.
- Give gifts, and flowers. Let it be not chic bouquets and not expensive gifts, but at least they will be. Gifts are a material expression of love and affection.
- Show attention and interest in her affairs. Ask how the day went, and how she would like to spend the evening. Listen actively when she talks to you (nod, ask clarifying questions).
How to show someone you love them without saying it?
Treat her with respect, be polite, and speak respectfully of her in her absence. By the way, if you condemn and blame her behind your back, then remember that this is your choice. So who is to blame? Relationships are equal partnerships.
If you are discussing a serious issue, do not start joking, it is inappropriate and disrespectful toward the girl.
Help around the house without special instructions and requests.
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