Good Ways: How to Get Close to a Girl?

12.06.2023

How to get close with a girl? Building reliable, strong, long-term relationships is hard and painstaking work. After all, it has long been known that in our time, sex does not bind anyone and practically does not oblige today's youth to anything. Physical intimacy is just one of the aspects of the relationship between a man and a woman; yes, an important aspect, but not the main one. So how do you get closer to someone on a higher level of relationship? Getting closer to a girl on a deeper level of relationship can be a long process that requires patience, respect, and the ability to listen to each other.

How to get girls' hearts?

• Sincerity and openness. Every person on earth has their own hidden fears and phobias. Share them with your soul mate. This is how you show your loved one that you trust him 100%, even your most secret fears, and worries. Such confessions help the couple to be much closer to each other emotionally.

• Starry sky. Invite your loved one to star gaze and then say, "I want to be close to you". Looking at the stars, you feel like a small grain of sand in the universe, and thoughts about eternal human values arise by themselves, such as love, trust, friendship, faith, hope for the best, and many others. Thinking about life and your role in the universe brings you closer to each other.

• Letter. Sometimes, it is very difficult to express in words all the swarm of feelings and emotions that overwhelms us. Yes, and due to some complexes, we do not know how or are afraid to confess our feelings out loud. And therefore, it is very convenient to collect your thoughts on a piece of paper and write a letter to your loved one to be close to her. Tell him about your love, about the qualities and virtues for which you love your chosen one. This will turn out pretty well on paper, and you will open for your loved one, another part of yourself, the one about which rarely anyone can say aloud.

• Feel free to give thanks. It is essential to be able to be grateful to Fate, God, the Universe... for your soul mate, for your relationship. When a person sees your gratitude, he understands what value it has for you. Seeing something valuable and good in your partner, you concentrate more on positive emotions and positivity in your relationship.

• Languages of your love. All people show their love for each other in different ways. In psychology, there are five love languages between partners. Some believe that the most important thing in love is caring for a loved one, while others believe no relationship is possible without touching. Determine what is important for you and what is for your loved one; this will help you feel mutual care for each other and, of course, will bring you closer at times. It is essential that each of you can feel loved. Feel free to say "want to get close to you" to your loved one.

• Joint classes. It could be cooking dinner or washing the car; it doesn't matter! The main thing is that you have fun and feel comfortable together. Treat teamwork as a pleasant, comical pastime, laugh more, and forgive each other for some shortcomings; for example, if you don’t know how to wash the bumper with high quality, turn this activity into a comic process. It's also great for getting close.

• Embrace. According to the standard, hugging is supposed to be in the cold, but this is not at all correct. You can show your feelings 24 hours a day on any, even the hottest day. Hugs do not necessarily lead to bed scenes. Learn to hug just like that. When hugging, oxytocin is produced - the hormone of hugs, which in turn strengthens the body and helps it fight negative influences from the outside.

• Massage. A great way to relax or help your partner do it. And we are talking about massage and not about more intimate scenes. So your partner will be very close to me. The care with which you do the massage will endear you to your loved one and help you learn to trust each other.

• Shared shower. How to go further with a girl? Taking a joint shower, it is essential not to turn this business into sex. Having learned to see each other without clothes, you will, as it were, bear your souls, stop complexing about your shortcomings and learn to accept yourself and your loved one as you are.

• Hands. They say that only young lovers or people who have just started their relationship hold hands. It is not right. You should always hold the hand of a loved one, even after five, even after 25 years lived together. Here, again, oxytocin works - which helps to strengthen the emotional connection between loved ones. So do not be shy, do not be complex, and stay healthy. Holding hands is important not only for young lovers but for all couples who strive to keep their relationship strong and long. This can really help strengthen the emotional bond between you and your partner. 

• Turn everything into a game. A lot of guys treat dating like something super important. Meeting a girl for them is something like an exam. And the life hack is that you can’t perceive a date this way. You should imagine meeting a girl as something like a game. No need to talk to each other, as if you were with a girl at an interview. Take it easy on a date. If you are easygoing, then the girl will feel more relaxed.

• Joint activities. Sometimes guys don't know what to say to a girl and what topics to talk about. As a rule, such a stupor appears only if you are in some kind of secluded environment. The best way out of this situation is to go somewhere where it is not so much talking as the interaction between you and the girl that will help the girl get close to you. If it is winter, then the ice rink will be the best place for a date. Another example is a real quest.

• Phone with photos. How to get close to your girlfriend? This life hack will save you from the problem of a lack of topics for conversation. It will be enough to bring the conversation to where you once were and what you did there. The phone is the repository of your memories. It will definitely contain photos where you did something or took part. It is not necessary to look for something really interesting right here. Photos can be the most ordinary, even when you just have a haircut or you eat something. The point of this hack is to show that you can easily figure out what to talk about.

• Musical date. If you prefer to sit somewhere, then pay attention to musical institutions. This option may suit many guys who find it difficult to communicate, and even more so close with a girl. The fact is that music is a kind of cover for your excitement and inability to communicate with a girl. When something is playing in the background, you may not be so serious. You can also give signs that the music is quite loud or cool. The musical accompaniment does not let you feel in solitude. If the music is good, then you can even dance, smile, etc. You can even invite a girl to dance. So you will be able to cover up your insecurities and feel at ease in communication.

• Let your phones rest. Sometimes, girls take out their phones during a date and start sticking to them. And they do this, rather, not because you are bored, but simply because of habit. Of course, the connection between you will become worse and worse. Alternatively, when the girl took out her phone, in response to this, take out yours. Next, ask her to put her cell phones away. For example, you could say, “Listen, there’s a new feature on iPhones. Now it shows how much time per day I spend in front of the screen. Imagine 4.5 hours. And I propose to reduce this time. Next, you invite the girl to put her phone down, and when she does, put yours on top. So she will not be able to look at Instagram again or somewhere else.

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