What Is Relationship Compatibility?

09.08.2022

You might hear something like "Compatibility has noteworthy meaning in relationship success" many times. But wait a sec, what does it actually mean?

Partner compatibility in a relationship is a delicate balance based on entirely different things: from astrology to a successful match of the work schedule and harmony in the home routine. There is no correct scenario in a relationship, and each couple is unique in their way. How to make sure that the chosen partner suits you? This article collected and reviewed vital factors that may affect your dating compatibility.

What does compatibility mean?

Ask anyone, "What is relationship compatibility?" You'll get antithetical answers — so many men and opinions. How to define compatibility in a relationship, then? And what makes you compatible with someone?

The truth is that the only persons you should ask are yourself and your partner, and the main question should sound like, "What does compatibility mean for you personally?". This is only how you can determine whether your circle of interests, plans for the future, and expectations coincide with your couple. It might seem simple and tricky at the same time: the simplicity of it is that you know what you want, and the complexity is your duo should clear all priorities to get the answers.

First, ask yourself why you need a relationship? What do you expect from your partner? Understanding your expectations, whether it's emotional support, inspiration, motivation, and pleasure from the time spent together, will help you build your attitude in a relationship. Add that to your expectations; what are you willing to give in return? That should help you understand how your partner's expectations fit and how you're compatible with each other.

Life-work balance 

Beyond balancing expectations and opportunities, it is worth paying attention to more routine issues such as balancing personal life and work: how much time are you willing to devote to relationships? There is nothing wrong with putting your career first if both partners are warned. Also, don't be shy to ask about your match's future vision for a clear perspective.

Financial expectations

This life aspect often involves plenty of questions and can be fraught with pitfalls for your marriage, so it's best to clear it up immediately. How do you see your financial future? Are you going to merge your assets? Your couple must have a unified picture at the beginning of your relationship — this can help you avoid unpleasant surprises when you decide to take the next step.

Role expectations

How do you see your house routine? Of course, you don't have to take on the whole responsibility, but it's great if you can offer your help with some household chores.

Make sure that there is a common understanding between you and your chosen one on how responsibilities should be divided. Role incompatibility can adjust your plans for a life together, so this issue is also better to clarify from the beginning.

Character aspects

Regarding character compatibility, it is worth emphasizing one thing — characters can be polar opposites but compatible. It also happens that the relationship becomes unbearable with the complete similarity of the characters. Partners may not hear each other if their temperament is too hot and drown in boredom if both are too cold. The good news is that you don't have to discuss this with your partner — you'll feel it for yourself from the first date. But still, it is better to pay attention to this side of life too.

Cultural code

The mix of different cultures in one couple may look exotic, but are you really ready for it? If the answer is yes, then you should pay enough attention to studying the cultural environment of your soul mate — so as not to get into trouble due to a naive joke or translation difficulties. Still, this is not an irresistible obstacle for heart connection if your mindset is tuned on your partner.

Physical Compatibility

There is always a place for a spark in a relationship between a man and a woman; however, it may not flare up on a first date - and there is nothing to worry about. Physical aspects in compatibility for lovers are something you can develop, not something that should be from the start.

Social circle

A circle of friends can become both a support and an obstacle for a couple, so when choosing a future partner for yourself, you should pay attention to this part of life. Here, too, it's all up to you — whether your relationship will be your personal thing or you want to declare it publicly. In this case, you should consider the social compatibility of your partner and the environment and vice versa.

Conclusion

As you may have already seen, couple compatibility is, foremost, compatibility in partners' expectations. It's a little sad, but it's true — it's almost impossible to find the perfect partner because relationships need to be worked on daily and not given to us as it is. The good news is that incompatibility is something you can work on if your partner is really worth it.

However, it has already been mentioned compatibility is a concept that everyone interprets in their own way, and you can put individual meaning into it. What's more — your personal triggers — whether your zodiac signs or date of birth — can unknowingly push you towards the one partner you're looking for.

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