How to Approach a Ukrainian Girl – Men’s Point of View

29.08.2016

Finding a perfect approach towards a girl is much more important than you assume. You have probably met attractive, fit, wealthy men that experience constant problems with women – they just cannot get a date. The trouble is – the first impression you make, the way you ask a girl out, and the way you represent yourself during the initial stage of your acquaintance are often underestimated yet create the basis for the future development of your relationship.

As most of the possibilities to meet a Ukrainian woman are anyhow related to dating services, we are going to start with explaining how to properly approach her online. However, we are also going to talk about live encounters. Dive in!

1. Pay attention to your profile page

Since the information on your profile page solely represents you on the Internet, you need to consider creating the right mood. You should fill any gaps and provide as much crucial facts about yourself as possible. Don’t forget to mention your pivotal measurements (height, weight etc.) because some women look for a precise type of men – for instance, taller than them or chubby. It will be much easier for you to get along from scratch if you know enough to create the image of a person you are communicating with.

2. Profile photo means a lot

I have been questioning this for literally too many times but it’s somehow still a thing – people post photos of kittens, plants, landscapes, celebrities and expect someone to text them. Why? Why would anyone write a message to an image of a sunny day? Would you? No, you wouldn’t, for sure. Your profile image should depict your face without sunglasses. If the service allows to, should add several photos to demonstrate different aspects of your physique. No nudity – even partial, even if you are ripped as hell. Such photos are great for hookup services, where you chat for minutes to get a casual sexual partner for an evening.

3. Respect and piousness

Ukrainian girls are commonly brought up in a quite religious and pious atmosphere. As a rule, they are educated and intelligent. You should have these facts in mind when you are approaching a Ukrainian woman online. Be respectful and don’t shower her with messages. Wait patiently for her answers. You need to know each other better to discuss intimate topics (and I am not even mentioning dirty topics – it’s a total turnoff for Ukrainian women). Call her by name now and then – it helps build the emotional bond. In general, you should be chivalrous, check your grammar to sound intellectual, focus on interesting topics instead of discussing weather – Ukrainians are not really into small topics.

4. Uncover your intents

Most dating services ask you to include your relationship goals on your profile page – literally, what you look for and what you are interested in. If not, you should unobtrusively reveal your intentions and the idea of perfect relationships. The vast majority BUT not all the Ukrainian girls are family-oriented. You may have totally different aims. Consequently, you will waste a lot of time building emotional connection while you just don’t fit each other. Likewise, Ukrainian girls love to know what you are up to. It makes them feel secure.

And here are some advice to make your live meeting appropriate:

1. Don’t be cheesy.

I don’t know who invented pickup lines and who decided that being chivalrous is no longer necessary. You should not approach a Ukrainian woman with any of modern methods. If you want to buy her a drink – just stop. You will have a chance to do so after you start a conversation and find something in common. Buying a drink without introducing yourself beforehand is a sure sign of your insecurity and anxiety. Talk to her, compliment her intelligence (but not her physical appearance!), and let her know you better.

2. Consider language barrier

Even though the English language (which you probably use as your main mean of communication) is taught in most Ukrainian schools, not all the girls are keen on it. If you want everything to work out properly, ask her about it in advance. You can always hire a translator for an evening. Later on, she will learn your language or you will find other means of communication.

3. Talk about Ukrainian culture

Ukraine hasn’t been that much affected by the Western country and somehow managed to maintain ethnic self-identification. It’s a very curious and deep culture with more than a thousand year of development. Ukrainian girls love to talk about their culture and country. It comforts them. Your interest may very pleasantly affect her feelings – it will be much easier to build an emotional bond. In the end, it’s a very interesting and beautiful country and you will learn a lot by just asking your prospective girlfriend. You kill two birds with one stone!